Non-Verbal Signs to Increase The Number of Viewers
For the past few years, the dating apps are gaining more popularity among the younger generation and one of the main reasons behind this is the rapid growth of the internet and mobile technology. Normally people find their dating partner or lover through friends or at parties or in the pubs or nightclubs, but those who are not into the social meetings find it difficult to meet the love of their life. For those people, the dating apps come to rescue by allowing them to meet a partner and extended their virtual relationship into a real-time relationship. People who are shy or find it difficult to approach the opposite gender can really hook up with a person of their interest by visiting the dating app.
There are many dating apps available online and they depend on the specific needs of the users, whether casual relationship or serious relationship. In any dating app, the body language in the dating profile is the gateway to increase or decrease the number of visitors visiting the profile.
Your pose determines your interest
The chance of winning or losing a person’s attention on the dating app depends on the profile picture but it is not because of the looks in most cases.
The body language of the person in that profile picture affects how they are perceived in it and with the help of a perfect picture; the chances of attracting a few more invites in the inbox are higher. According to a study by one of the dating apps, women prefer to respond and to the guys who are of average look and at times the attractive people have more disadvantages in the online dating platform.
To impress women in the dating app, many men post professionally photographed pics, shirtless pics showing their abs and zoolander selfies. But women look for the ordinary and casual person and they do not care about the other extra stuffs.
Irrespective of the gender and orientation, the chances of increasing more invites depend on the pictures that display the personal interest of the person like their sense of humor, hobbies, interest in pets. These pictures tell the other person that the profile owner has lots to talk about, fun to hang out with and the common interests. Pictures speak a lot about a person’s interest, behavior and attitude.
Post these pictures and fill your inbox
There are certain body languages and postures that can be used by a person while posting their pictures for the dating app and it will interest the others to approach them easily. These guidelines apply for both men and women to increase the list of friends in their profile.
These are my interests: The people who post their pictures of doing some kind of activity are smart people and the chances of increasing the invites are more because they not only display their appearance in the picture, but also their personal interests or hobbies or activities. A picture that displays a person getting involved in some activity gets interesting than a standby picture. The main reason is, the photo displays how the person engages his/her life. It gives an opportunity for the viewer to start a conversation or respond to the text message and increases the connection between the two.
The photos can be of the profile owner playing a musical instrument or trekking or geocaching or in the midst of a game night. These kinds of photos will make the viewers love the profile.
I am not a sociopath: The love for selfies are increasing each day but, profile pictures that are fully loaded with the same old selfies with the slightest change in the position of angles does not interest the viewers. It will not display the social side of a person and also look a bit narcissistic. So, it would be attractive to post a couple of profile pictures with friend, teammates and colleagues that will look natural and makes you look like a social-lover.
The main advantage of these kinds of pictures is that, it will depict the quality of a person that they are capable of having healthy relationships and gives a statement that the person is not a sociopath. No matter if the profile owner’s looks are not perfect in the photo, the main aim of posting a group photo is to display the fun they have while they are along with their friends and how the crowd feels happy to be in their company. But they have to make sure that the crowd is not big because the viewer will have a hard time locating the profile owner.
I love my family: Photos taken along with the family members adds bonus points. So, the profile owner can post a picture in which they are with their grandparents, or couple cousins, or pictures in which they are playing with their nieces and nephews. These pictures can be posted especially by men because women love to see guys attached to their family. It gives an assumption that they are a good grandson, brother and a sweet uncle. Good guys are good boyfriends, so the invites are doubled with the help of the family. And pictures with kids rank them as a great dad and impress most of the women.
Me and my hairy friend: The other prop that helps men to be more attractive are the animals. It also increases the chance of meeting a woman in person. But women hanging out with pets are not a good scorer. Soy boys, hug your dogs or cats and post the picture on your profile and look at the invites you would receive in the inbox.
The main reason that these pictures attract women is because it gives a vibe that men who are kind to the animals are hot, gentle and protective, easy going and responsible, and they are caring and yet playful. And if they are good at cuddling animals, then imagining them cuddling their women is a plus.
Here I am: One of the best practices in online dating is maintain a common decency. Posting atleast one profile picture that shows the full body of the person is will show the viewer how they look like. It also shows that the person is confident and honest and it avoids the deceptive and false thoughts about the person. But the best pose for women is the ‘MySpace shot’ and it attracts more viewers.
And posting of some really nice comical photos will be of great help in displaying the playful side of a person. There is no harm in posting a photo that is unflattering. One must make sure that the photo they post in their profile must be a recent pic because if they post an older pic in which they smart and young and later meet their date in person will give a wrong impression.
The magical spell: There are some men and women waiting on the dating app with zero inbox messages and they are wondering what is wrong with them. There might be nothing wrong with them, but the picture they have posted on their dating app profile might be a big mistake. Most people might think that a picture is no way going to affect them in getting invites, but in reality, it matters a lot. People respond or approach a profile by looking at their picture because in a random search where there are millions of users people look select the profile by the pic on the wall and only then they read the entire profile. So gaining more attention and making people choose a profile depends on the photo that is posted. The body language is not only a common etiquette in real-life but it also plays an important role in the dating platform.
Following these basic steps while posting the profile photo will increase the number of invites a person receives in their profile. The dating app is a place where the person can be themselves so both men and women must be who they are like showing their real identity, age and appearance. This honesty will make people find them more attractive and confident.
Anand Rajendran is CEO and Co-Founder of Zoplay, best PHP scripts development company located in India. Zoplay is a part of Casperon Technologies a leading social and mobile development company which developed a Dating Script called Zodate. I’m a Tech geek, Digital marketing expert, Entrepreneur, and Atheist who loves to write everything about PHP Scripts and mobile application development.